Definition:
Enabler wo insaan hota hai jo directly narcissist jaise behave nahi karta, lekin unke toxic actions ko support karta hai—chup rehkar, justify karke, ya victim ko blame karke. Aksar ye family members, dost, ya colleagues hote hain jo “peace banaye rakhne ke liye” narcissist ki side le lete hain.
Example:
- Jab aap apni narcissistic maa ki abusive baatein batate ho, aur aapka bhai kehta hai, “Par mummy tumhare liye kitna karti hain, thoda to adjust karo.”
- Aapke dost kehte hain, “Tumhara partner thoda rude ho sakta hai, par tum bhi to short-tempered ho,” jabki aap emotional abuse face kar rahe ho.