Definition:
Control ka matlab hota hai kisi dusre vyakti ke decisions, emotions ya actions par apna dabav banana. Narcissist hamesha chahte hain ki unke victims unki marzi ke mutabik hi sochein, mehsoos karein aur jeeyein. Ye control emotional, financial, mental ya even physical form mein ho sakta hai.
Narcissistic Abuse ke Context mein:
Ek narcissistic parent ya partner aapki freedom ko subtly ya directly chheen leta hai. Aap kis se baat kar rahe ho, kya pehen rahe ho, kis se mil rahe ho — sab kuch uski permission se hota hai.
Example:
“Jab main apne doston ke saath ghoomne gaya, papa ne mujhse teen baar call kiya aur gusse mein poocha ke main unse bina puche kaise chala gaya. Tab samjha, ki unka pyar nahi, unka control bol raha tha.”