Definition:
Cognitive dissonance ek mental conflict hota hai jab aap do contradictory beliefs ko ek saath rakhte ho. Narcissist ke sath relationship mein aapko lagta hai: “Wo mujhe pyaar karta hai” aur “Wo mujhe dard deta hai” — dono sach nahi ho sakte, par aap confused rehte ho.

Example:

  • Jab vo aapko insult karta hai, aap sochte ho: “Uska intention galat nahi hoga.”
  • Aap sochte ho: “Agar vo itna bura hota to main usse itna pyaar kyun karta?”